How to Approach a Woman and Get Her Number Fast
From the beginning of time, entire industries have been established around boy meets girl. Led by David DeAngelo, author of "Double Your Dating," today's seduction community offers its followers a laundry list of tips and routines to approach women and improve your dating success. Approaching a woman and getting her number fast, however, relies upon straightforward tactics. Your goal is to cut through the games and get her phone number within two minutes.
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Instructions
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Try to make eye contact with every attractive woman that you come near. Your chances for getting a woman's phone number increase if she locks eyes with you for a moment, smiles and looks away. According to AskMen.com, a woman may use seductive body language and flirt heavily to convey that she is interested.
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Approach the woman with a smile. You should assume that she wants to talk and ask for her name. Do not be concerned with volunteering information about yourself at this point. If she is interested, she will ask.
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Notice something about the woman's outfit and pay her a compliment. To play things safe, you can always mention her shoes, or say that you think she is cute. Keep the compliment simple, because gushing over somebody that you don't even know is a turn-off that reeks of desperation. Respectfully look into her eyes as a gentleman. Do not ogle the woman by staring at her cleavage or any other physical asset.
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Make an excuse to leave within 90 seconds of your approach. To preserve the air of mystery, you are a man on the go and must either attend to business quickly or meet up with friends at a nearby event. Do not allow the conversation to get stale.
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Inform her that you are interested in continuing the conversation later. You may suggest meeting up for coffee. Assume that she is willing to provide you with her phone number. You would end by saying: "What is your phone number?"
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Enter her number into your cell phone, nonchalantly. Remember, you must expect to be able to get any woman's phone number fast. Further, you are too cool to mistake a phone number with marriage. You may consider texting her within the next 10 minutes, as a means to exchange information.
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Give her your business card, if she refuses you her phone number for any reason. She may prefer to take your number and call you up at a later date. If she does, do not ask for her information unless she offers.
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Tips & Warnings
Be certain to keep a pen and paper available for situations that require a special approach. A woman that is in a group may shy away from the taboo of broadcasting her number to a stranger. In this case, you should never make any quick moves to whip out your cell phone. Speak softly while asking for her phone number. Remember her information and discretely write it down afterward.
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