How to Naturally Attract Women

Confidence is key when trying to attract women.

Several men find that they have problems when they try to attract women. Getting a woman's attention without putting in too much effort isn't simple, but it is possible. The same tried-and-true tips work on just about any woman--and the same mistakes will repel every woman too. Master the arts of a perfect first impression and self-esteem. Stop being scared of rejection, ooze confidence and walk around proudly with your dream girl on your arm.

Instructions

1. Eliminate the fear of rejection. The possibility of rejection shouldn't paralyze you to the point where you don't act at all. When you spot a gorgeous woman, tell the negative voices in your head to quiet down while you approach her. Constantly reminding yourself that she's out of your league or probably not interested won't help you on your path to getting the girl. Instead of validating your fear of rejection, nix it completely. If you do end up being rejected, realize that you're not the first person to experience this and it isn't necessarily personal. In reality, you didn't know Miss Perfect in the first place, so you haven't lost much.

2. Exude confidence. The most attractive and desirable trait on anybody, man or woman, is confidence. Just think of how unattractive an under-confident girl is to you. Without being too cocky or overly confident, act as if you're secure in your abilities to be the right guy for your soon-to-be new girl. Banish your nerves and don't hesitate to introduce yourself, strike up a conversation and ask her out. Even if things take a turn for the worse, don't forget that being confident means taking even bad news in stride. It's not the end of the world if she's got a boyfriend/super busy work schedule/lost cell phone. You have the skills to find somebody who is interested right back.

3. Understand the balance between being a challenge and being a jerk. Women tend to fall for the "bad" guys instead of the super-sweet ones. Be forewarned though, girls are falling for the challenge, not the self-centered creep who comes along with it. Playfully joke around with her instead of falling all over every word she utters.

4. Engage in an active social life. Shying away from conversations and acting awkward when you're out with a group are not going to reel in the right girl. Presenting yourself as a sociable person will show girls that you're fun and likable.

5. Watch the signals you send via body language. Keep your hands out of your pockets and push your shoulders back. Instead of slouching and looking down at your feet, stand up straight and open your chest to show that you're open and warm, plus confident and secure.

References

• The Player Society: How to Get Girls
• The Player Society: How to Make a Great First Impressions with Women