How to Protect Elderly Parents
As the aging process marches on, senior citizens become less able to protect themselves from abuse, fraud, and theft. When any type of abuse is a part of the their life, seniors--just like children--become withdrawn, depressed, angry, and sometimes suicidal. Identifying the signs will help you protect elderly parents. Adopting preventive measures will enable you to control who has access to their finances and well-being. Roles become reversed, and just as your parents nursed and cared for you from infancy, you will need to care for them in their waning years.
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Communicate with your parents constantly. If you have a caregiver to help them, drop in unexpectedly. Make sure your parents' accounts and financial information are not left open for all to view. According to "Consumer Reports," assuming a power of attorney role and placing your name on their bank account will help monitor and deter scams. Secure important financial documents in a safety deposit box or in an area you and your parents know to be safe.
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Run background checks on anyone you hire to care for your parents. Interview caregivers and keep in mind any question that makes them feel edgy or uncomfortable. Ask for references. When you call the references, ask detailed questions about their employment as well as questions that verify the caregiver's ability and lifestyle.
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Accompany your parents on their doctors' visits. Ask questions and discuss medical care with their physician. Take notice of any bruises or pain your parents might have and ask questions. If you see signs of memory loss or your parents seem confused at times, discuss these issues with their doctor to come up with a plan of action to help maintain their health.
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Pay attention to how your parents respond to their caregivers. Abuse does not always come in the form of physical bruises. If you see signs of one or both of your parents afraid or acting in a manner that is not normal for them, take the time to investigate. Install monitors to view the daily activities of your parents if you suspect abuse.
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If caregivers see you are a part of your parents' care, they will be less likely to attempt anything deceptive or abusive. Alternate your unexpected visits among various family members or close friends, if possible. Seek resources to help you care for your parents. Community organizations and national support programs can assist you in providing the help and care your parents need.
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Tips & Warnings
Trust your instincts about people. If it doesn't feel right, don't trust them with your parents.
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