How Do I Attract Men With My Mind?

You can attract men with your mind.

Men are complex creatures, and sometimes getting a man to like you can be difficult, especially if he is clearly not interested. However, there are many effective ways to approach a man and conquer his heart.



Don't rely merely on mini-skirts, make up, and an expensive perfume. According to Cosmopolitan magazine, "Men have certain innate needs that must be met before they truly feel connected to you." If you want a man to fall in love with you and take you seriously, first you need to attract him in the right direction: with your mind.

Instructions

1. Show him your intellectual side. Impress him by not talking about shallow subjects such as make-up, shoes, fashion, etc. Talk about what you think of life, what your personal and professional goals are, and how you are planning on achieving them, among other things.

2. Show him your honorable intentions. If you are trying to conquer his heart, let him know that you are not an easy woman. You can prove this by being modest and not jumping into bed with him on the first date.

3. Let him know the good things you have learned from him. This kind of communication will show him that you are a good listener and a keen observer; he may very well try to think about the good things he has learned from you too.

4. Listen to him. Men often complain that women talk to much. Show him that you are different by paying close attention to everything he says. When the moment is right, you can respond and give him your opinion on whatever topic he is discussing.

5. Ask him questions. Do not interrogate him. Instead, ask him questions concerning his wellbeing, such as "Are you comfortable?" or "Do you like this music?" Check with him before doing something that affects him: "Is it ok if I...?" Questions like these will show that you are not selfish, and that you really do care for him.

Tips & Warnings

• Be careful not to reveal the fact that you are trying to impress him, otherwise the plan will not work.

• While these tips may help you to conquer a man's heart, it is not guaranteed that this will happen.

References

• Cosmopolitan: What makes men fall in love.

Resources

• IVillage: Five ways to make anyone fall in love with you.