How do I Plan an Infant Funeral?
It is not a simple maneuver to switch from planning the arrival of your newborn to planning his funeral, but with the help of your friends, family and funeral director you will be able to do it. Think about memorable songs, poems or Bible verses you find comfort in hearing, and consider using them during the funeral service. The most important thing for you to remember is there is no wrong way to plan your baby's funeral.
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Ask your friends and family to assist you in planning the funeral. There are times when you may need someone to run interference between you and well-meaning people, or help ensure your desires are made clear. You are grieving and may not hear or remember everything that is going on around you. Your friends and family will remind you of important conversations.
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Call and select a funeral director in your area. You can find listings in your local newspaper, phone book or online. If you are worried about how to pay for the service, inform the funeral director right away; he may be able to assist you.
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Select a casket, flowers and burial gown. Choose the the time, date and location of the funeral service. Decide if you want the service to be open to the public or private. Notify the funeral director and ask him to place an obituary in the paper, making mention of any details you want the public to know.
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Ask a close friend to photograph the ceremony before guests arrive. You will be filled with a variety of emotions and may not remember the details.
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Determine if you and your child's siblings would like to hold the baby one last time; it may or may not provide closure.
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Ask a pastor or priest to officiate the service. If you do not regularly attend a church or need help finding a cleric, consult with your funeral director. He will be able to assist you.
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