How to Write a Matron of Honor Wedding Toast

Prepare a matron of honor toast prior to the reception.

The matron of honor wedding toast is delivered during the reception by the matron of honor. A matron of honor is a married woman who stands up for her friend or sister while she gets married. The toast usually occurs early in the reception. When writing the speech, the matron of honor should focus on telling the bride and all the wedding guests how much the bride means to her, share wisdom about marriage and her give best wishes to the newlyweds.

Instructions

1. Practice the speech prior to the wedding. Rehearsing the speech will allow you to feel more confident on the wedding day. Consider writing down the speech, or at least some notes to help you remember the main points.

2. Tell wedding guests how you know the bride. Opening the matron of honor speech, you should explain your connection to the bride.

3. Tell a funny story about the bride. Humor is common in wedding toasts.

4. Wish the bride and groom happiness. The toast should end with a wish for happiness in the new marriage, and perhaps a bit of advice for the bride and groom.

Tips & Warnings

• Keep the speech short.

• Avoid sharing secrets or information that the groom and bride's parents may not know, as this may cause embarrassment.

• Do not mention previous boyfriends or relationships.

References

• Bride's Maid 101: Maid of Honor Speech
• Wedding Speeches and Vows: Matron of Honor Toasts and Speeches