How to Write a Good Maid of Honor Speech
Being named maid of honor is a great, well, honor bestowed by brides as they prepare to get married. Among the many tasks that befall a bride's deputy is toasting the couple during their wedding reception. Choosing the right words to commemorate the moment will create a lasting memory. Consider integrating humor, sentimentality and, of course, heartfelt well wishes when writing your speech.
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Compile a list of the bride's attributes. Do any of these characteristics relate to a special story to be included in the toast?
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Consider whether the groom shares any of these attributes. Maybe another special story reflects the shared quality.
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Tie the two stories together by mentioning how both anecdotes relate to the bride and groom's shared trait.
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What special trait do they share? Point out how the shared quality will enrich their lives as a married couple.
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Invite guests to raise their glasses and wish the bride and groom well.
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Tips & Warnings
Keep your speech concise. Guests' attention will begin to fade if rambling, crying or ranting ensue.
Jot down notes to keep on hand in case of stage fright. Even if you don't have a word-for-word speech written out, some simple words or phrases may jog your memory on the spot.
Omit embarrassing or inappropriate anecdotes in the speech. You'll only make the bride, groom and their guests uncomfortable in an otherwise sentimental moment.
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