How to Become a Learning Mentor

Learning mentors meet with young students to encourage them in academics and personal achievements.

A learning mentor is an adult who works with students one-on-one or in groups to promote independent learning, improved academics and increased personal achievement. Learning mentors work frequently in elementary and middle schools, but many learning mentors volunteer at after-school program centers or work with college-aged students. The primary goal of a learning mentor is to be a positive role model for a student who struggles or is discouraged with academics and to help the student improve in both his academic and personal life.

Instructions

1. Develop your listening skills. As a learning mentor, you need to listen to what the student tells you. If he expresses dislike for a teacher, genuinely try to understand his point of view instead of simply stating that his opinion is wrong. If she tells you that math class is "stupid," ask questions so you begin to understand what about math class she finds "stupid." Does she not understand the material, or does she dislike her classmates? Sometimes a student just needs a safe adult to talk to. You are that adult. Avoid passing judgment on anything the child might tell you, and instead listening intently with an open mind.

2. Practice patience. While many children are thrilled to have a mentor, others may dislike the forced companionship. Be patient with your mentored child. She may need time to adjust to the new relationship. Avoid being snappy or harsh with the student. Instead, think about your responses before speaking and try to stay as calm and relaxed as possible.

3. Plan creative ways to encourage the child you mentor. One of the most important aspects of mentoring is the opportunity to encourage another person. Send your child cards or letters in the mail, give him small gifts or just pat him on the shoulder and tell him you are proud of him. Praise him for academic successes, even if the success seems insignificant to you. For example, some mentored children struggle so much in school that even getting a few problems right on a math test is a huge success. Congratulate your child on every right answer and encourage him to keep doing his best.

4. Improve your communication skills. As a learning mentor, you must be able to communicate to a variety of students from different backgrounds. You will encounter students of different ethnic backgrounds, as well as students with different home lives. While listening is an excellent communication skill, you also need to be able to communicate advice and assistance to children who may come from a rough home life or who may dislike authority figures.

5. Apply for a position as a learning mentor at your local school or after-school program center. Some learning mentor positions have strict qualification requirements, such as a college degree or prior experience, while other organizations are happy to train all potential learning mentors. Contact the organization you hope to work with as a mentor to discuss specific academic requirements.

References

• Working With Kids (UK): Learning Mentor
• Skills 4 Schools: Learning Mentors
• Connexions Direct: Leaerning Mentor