How to Tell That a Girl Wants to Talk to You
Looking for love? Well, first, you need to get a girl to talk to you. This can be tricky, and not everyone is lucky in love. To avoid being shot down before you even finish a pickup line, you need to know if a girl is interested. If not, don't waste your breath. Of course every girl is different and no method is foolproof, but if you follow the steps below, you'll at least avoid having a drink thrown in your face and you may even score a date!
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Instructions
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Before Initiating a Conversation
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Know yourself and your own positive attributes. By evaluating yourself you will know how to better sell yourself to the opposite sex. A good way to do this is by writing a list of your best qualities. Ask a female friend to evaluate it and offer suggestions.
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Look in the right places. If you are good at and interested in sports, you will have more luck getting a girl to talk to you in a gym than at a poetry reading.
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Evaluate the situation. A girl may be attracted to you, but if you approach at the wrong time, you may blow your chance. If a girl is involved in a work-related activity, studying, or in the middle of a deep conversation with someone, she is not interested in talking to you.
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Look for clues. If a girl wants to talk to you, she may initiate a conversation herself, but chances are you'll have to do the hard work. If a girl makes extended eye contact, turns slightly toward you, or smiles often in your direction, chances are she wants to talk to you.
During the Conversation
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Pay attention to body language. If a girl keeps checking her watch, looking around, or fidgeting, she does not want to talk to you. On the other hand, if she keeps eye contact and leans slightly toward you, she does.
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Listen to what she is saying. If she is actively participating in the conversation, she is interested in talking to you. Examples would be follow-up questions, or personal stories and contributions of her own.
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Plan for the future. A surefire way to know if a girl is truly interested in talking to you is to see if she wants to do so again. Ask if she'd like to grab a coffee some time, or exchange phone numbers or email addresses. If she agrees, chances are good she enjoyed talking to you.
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Tips & Warnings
Remember, what works when trying to talk to one girl may not work with another. Always guage the situation.
Some girls will participate in a conversation with you to be polite, even if they are not interested. In this case, clues that she is not really interested in you are if she makes an excuse to leave, and you never hear from her again.
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