How to Make Her Chase You
Successful ladies' men know that attracting women is the most effective way to start new relationships and build bonds. Developing this unique chemistry and attraction from the fairer sex begins with self-confidence. Work on yourself first prior to dropping subtle hints of romance to the object of your affections. As her interest grows, she will make the effort to gain your attention through well timed phone calls, playful flirting and, ultimately, date requests.
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Instructions
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Self-Confidence
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Build self-confidence up to the point where you view yourself as the prize. Do so by focusing energy on yourself, whether developing a particular talent or mastering a specific hobby. Career advancement, cooking and the arts are activities that women find especially attractive.
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Join a gym and exercise three to five times per week. Beyond developing your physique, remember to stay true to a basic grooming regimen, including regular haircuts, clean clothes and just a moderate amount of cologne.
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Fill your social calendar with events and travel that enable you to interact with various groups of people. Your goal is to increase your personal network and transform yourself into a man who is in demand.
Attraction
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Approach the female of interest and get her telephone number. You should be able to do so within five to 10 minutes. Avoid using any slick lines during your initial approach. Simply exchange introductions and request her phone number to continue the conversation at another point.
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Wait roughly 48 hours before calling. You must balance your timing to show interest but not appear desperate. Do not call on Friday and Saturday evenings--when you should be out having fun. Limit your initial conversation to 10 minutes--to show your time is limited. Use this phone call to put together a rough outline of her schedule and interests.
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Call back again within 48 hours. Discuss your social plans and events that are coming up, which happen to be aligned with her schedule. If interested, she should invite herself to join you. Women, however, can be coy. Do not propose a formal date but indicate that it would be nice for her to come along. Your first meeting should be light and unassuming. Limit your spending to $25.
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Use light touch to hint that you are ultimately interested in becoming more than friends while enjoying each other's company in person. Beyond playfully touching her on the hands and arms, avoid focusing on her physical attributes. Your goal is to differentiate yourself from other guys--who generally fawn over an attractive woman.
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Limit the first date to 60 minutes to leave her wanting more. From there, an interested woman will begin making calls and suggestions to see you again. She will make her intentions more obvious as time goes by, and you should be ready to make a love connection--when given the green light.
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Tips & Warnings
Sometimes, she just might not be into you. Move on when you are doing most of the calling.
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