How to Represent Yourself in Divorce
You promised to love your spouse forever, but sometimes, forever comes much sooner than planned. Statistics show that about 50 percent of all marriages end in divorce. If your marriage is at its end, you should retain an attorney if at all possible. But if you can't afford a lawyer and you think the divorce will go relatively smoothly, you can represent yourself in court.
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File your petition for divorce with the appropriate court in the county in which you reside. Call your county's clerk of court's office if you are unsure with which court you should file. State the grounds for divorce in your petition. The divorce may be a "no fault" situation on the grounds of "irreconcilable differences" or an "at-fault" divorce based on the actions of the other person such as adultery. Filing fees differ from state to state, but most are $100 or less. If you have children, you also should file documents establishing a temporary custody and support agreement.
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Visit family court to observe divorce proceedings before your day in court. You will pick up tips from attorneys and learn more about how divorce proceedings work. While at the courthouse, pick up a copy of your state and local divorce rules and guidelines from the clerk of court's office. Study the rules to prepare for your hearing.
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Dress appropriately for your appearance in court, as if you were going to work in an office or to a job interview. Be in the courtroom on time. Do not confront your spouse or any of his or her family or witnesses before or during the hearing, and maintain your composure at all times. Address the judge as sir, ma'm or your honor. Respect the judge and court personnel at all times.
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Have all documents pertaining to the divorce ready to present in court. This includes all documents pertinent to your marriage and divorce including income, property, automobiles, insurance, tax returns, banking and custody. Present these documents to the judge as evidence.
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Be prepared to testify on your own behalf. When testifying, stay on point, and do not become overly emotional. Answer all questions honestly and directly. Do not address your spouse or anyone else directly, and do not interrupt other witnesses who testify. Maintain your composure throughout the proceedings and when the judge announces his decision.
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