How to Fix a Bad Relationship With Your Boss

Fixing your relationship with your boss is beneficial for your work environment.

Awkwardness or tension between an employee and boss can create a stressful working environment. Do not feel like you are the only one to blame as it usually takes at least two people to cause a bad relationship by fighting or causing tension. Staying angry or generally upset about the situation will result in a decline in your work or attendance. Having a job you do not like going to can become physically demanding. The best thing to do is to face the situation head on and to resolve the problem at hand.

Difficulty:

Easy

Instructions

1. Speak with your boss directly and try to work out your differences. Apologize, regardless of whose fault it was. Show your boss that you are an open-minded adult who just wants to clear the slate and start new. Communicate with your boss as often as possible and in a positive way. Listen to what your boss has to say and do not interrupt him. Carefully choose your responses before answering a question or responding to statements. Allow your boss to feel comfortable when speaking to you. Be direct and open and speak in the same tone as he does. Do not let miscommunication keep your relationship with your boss rocky.

2. Contact the human resources department for further help if the situation cannot be resolved. Many companies have counseling resources or tips for a better working environment. Talking to someone will allow you to get the predicament off of your chest and will provide you with valuable strategies to get across to your boss. Use these tips and strategies daily to rebuild your broken relationship with your boss. If needed, your boss may sit in on the meeting or having a meeting of his own to discuss the situation. If the situation is serious, then it is important to draw attention to it and get it taken care of right away.

3. Maintain a relationship with your boss no matter how awkward the situation seems. Put the situation behind you to increase the chance of repairing your relationship. Show your boss that you are able to deal with this predicament and prove that you can handle the stresses of the job. Maintain a good rapport with your boss and approach her each time you have a question or concern. Finish your work long before deadlines and be willing to accept new assignments. Do not be afraid to ask for help when needed and continue to work as a team to accomplish tasks.

References

• Troy Media: Hate Your Boss? Four Job-Saving Tips to Mend a Bad Relationship
• Kroger: Improve Your Relationship With Your Boss
• Work Bloom: Developing a Great Relationship With Your Boss