How to Find and Date a Nice Guy

Being the person you want to date is one key to helping you find that nice guy.

Finding Mr. Right sounds like the greatest challenge of all. Sometimes dating seems like a pointless waste. But he is out there and it is possible to find the right guy and keep him. You just need to be prepared yourself and keep an open mind.

Instructions

1. Volunteer for a charity, an animal shelter or a library. You will have the opportunity to meet many new friends that can potentially introduce you to a wonderful guy. You may even end up meeting the One in one of these situations. Remember, you can meet him anywhere, including the grocery store or just crossing the street.

2. Be the person you want your ideal match to be. A lot of negativities can attract guys of a negative nature. There are also guys who like to help those in need, but it is best to be a strong person who has forgiven others and has an open heart. This will make it much easier to attract Mr. Right.

3. Discuss the positives in life. Do this before and after you meet this nice guy. By focusing on the positive, you will have a more positive outlook on life and attract more positive things into your life, including a positive, nice guy. While negative things do occur in life, do your best to discuss the good things in life once you are dating this nice guy. When an unsettling topic comes up, such as the cheating ex, briefly mention it and move on. Do not dwell on the negative things of the past. They stop us from moving forward.

4. Allow your guy to be who he is and accept him for who he is. You can't change him. Focus on the positive aspects. It might surprise you just how many more positive aspects you discover about this already great guy. When we see the negatives in people, we are only going to see more negatives, and that is when things start to spiral downward, unless we shift our focus once more to the positive.

5. Be true to yourself. Don't change just to impress someone. Change because you want to become a better person. Don't lie to make yourself look better because if you're caught, it can very well be game over in the relationship. Accept your shortcomings. Accept yourself for who you are. Make a list of three things each week that you can improve upon in your life. Even if you change just one aspect about yourself each week, you still have become a better person. Be your best self and it will bring out the best in others, including the guy you are dating.

References

• Professor House: Finding Mr. Right
• CBN: 10 Tips to Finding Mr. Right