How to Show Affection to a Guy
Sometimes it is difficult to show affection towards a guy. This may happen at the start of a relationship or after you've been together for a while and you start to run out of creative ways to show your partner that you're still into him. Affection is important as it shows your guy that you are interested in him and allows you to convey your feelings in a physical way. Without displays of affection, you may feel alone in the relationship. Affection requires effort and desires reciprocation, but everyone shows it differently.
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Take a walk through a park or near a lake while holding hands. This shows your partner affection while letting him know you are comfortable with him in public and enjoy his touch. Holding hands is simple but meaningful gesture that brings two people together. This also shows others that you care about one another and enjoy each others' company.
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Tell your partner exactly how you feel about him. Let him know how important he is to you and what you are willing to do for him in order to maintain your part of the relationship. Let him know that you will be by his side throughout the ups and downs of his life and will be there for him anytime he needs you. If you love your partner or care for him deeply, tell him so.
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Give your guy a back rub after a long day at work. After a soothing back rub, run him a bath and let him relax. Offer to wash his hair for him and make sure he has a clean towel and clothes once he gets out of the bathtub. If you have time to prepare beforehand, light a few candles and place them around the room. This will eliminate harsh lighting and help him relax.
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Make him a mix CD. This allows you to show your affection for him through music. Print inspirational or love quotes on the CD cover. Choose songs that have special meaning for the two of you or lyrics that express how you feel.
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References
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