How to Talk to Conceited Girls at Parties

Talk to a conceited girl at a party.

Just like in the wild, the strong devour the weak and it works the same with human social interactions, especially when talking to conceited girls at parties. Conceited girls carry a high opinion of themselves, which can be intimidating, especially at parties. Do not let your guard down when talking to conceited girls. Insecure girls will often disguise shortcomings with a conceited attitude. Talking to conceited girls successfully at parties will require confidence and maintaining your own sense of self worth.

Instructions

1. 

   Keep arms behind the back.

   Avoid letting conceited girls see you sweat. Conceited girls will notice your fear and determine you unworthy. Show confident body language by keeping your head up and having good posture. According to Psychology Today, "keeping your arms unfolded and behind the back indicates likability and high self-esteem." Keep eye contact when talking to conceited girls.

2. 

   Show confidence.

   Counteract conceitedness with confidence. Ignore conceited behavior by not commenting, praising or taking personally boastful and belittling remarks. Do not encourage arrogant and snobby comments by being agreeable. Speak up and be true to yourself.

3. 

   Find something in common to talk about.

   Direct the conversation. Find something in common that you can talk about. Ask questions because conceited girls like talking about themselves. Stuck-up girls believe they are better than others are, creating exclusive cliques and making fun of people. Change the subject if the conversation turns into mean spirited comments about others.

4. 

   Make girls laugh.

   Make conceited girls laugh. Comedy is a useful tool in disarming people. Laughing helps people relax which can bring forth the real person inside. Tell a joke, be charming and smile while talking to conceited girls at parties.

5. 

   Remove a girl from a high pedestal with sarcasm.

   Respond to conceited girls with sarcasm. Sarcasm will let a conceited girl know you are not taking them seriously. Conceited girls want acceptance like everyone else. Being sarcastic will help mock a conceited girl's high and mighty behavior, quickly removing them from a high pedestal.

6. 

   Deal with rejection.

   Deal with rejection with your head held high. Talking to conceited girls at parties is challenging and it can end with an unsuccessful encounter. Accept rejection without feeling deflated and unworthy. If a conceited girl rejects you in a nasty manner, smile to the smug girl as you wish her luck with her search for a personality. Realize it is not a big loss if you are unsuccessful when talking to conceited girls at parties. Instead, seek out the down to earth girls.

Tips & Warnings

• Eleanor Roosevelt once said, "No one can make you feel inferior without your consent."

References

• "Psychology Today" magazine; Truth in Advertising; Matthew Hutson; January/February 2010
• "This Is My Story"; Eleanor Roosevelt; 1937