How to Pick a Couples Counselor

Choosing the right couples counselor is an important decision. With so many counselors out there, it can be hard to know which one is best for you and your partner. By figuring out your specific needs and specifications, you can find a couples counselor who is a good fit for your partner and you.

Instructions

1. Decide what it is you are hoping to achieve by going to a couples counselor. Maybe you want help communicating or getting over an act of infidelity. Preparing for marriage and getting through a loss are other reasons to see a counselor. Once you have figured out what you want to achieve, you can look for a counselor who specializes in that particular issue. List any other criteria that each of you have in terms of what you are looking for in a counselor, such as whether the person is married, and professional credentials.

2. Set a budget. Counselors fees for their services will vary. You can inquire what they are by phone. Research counselors who accept your health insurance and who are within comfortable driivng distance.

3. Meet with different therapists who fit your requirements. The only way to truly know which therapist is right for you and your partner is to speak with the therapist together. Some therapists will allow a phone consultation before paying for a session. If one of you is not comfortable with the counselor, keep looking.

References

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