How to Meet Jewish Friends

Jewish environments can facilitate Jewish friendships.

When meeting Jewish friends, keep in mind that you will probably want to meet people who practice Judaism in a similar manner to you. Additionally, you want to put yourself in a situation where you will meet Jewish people with similar interests.

Things You'll Need

• Membership at a synagogue or Jewish community center

Instructions

1. Determine the type of Jewish people you want to meet. There are orthodox, conservative, and reform Jews, and the way they practice may limit their ability to engage in activities during the weekend, since very religious Jews observe the Sabbath on Saturdays.

2. Research nearby synagogues and Jewish community centers to identify one that has the right mix of Jewish people for you. Find out the average age of the active members, the services offered, whether the facility has sports teams or leagues, the observance level of most members, and whether there is an on-site exercise room or other amenities that interest you.

3. Ask if you can visit the synagogue or Jewish community center when they are hosting an event that interests you. This will allow you to observe the people at the event to see if it appears to be a good location to meet Jewish people with similar interests.

4. Join the synagogue or Jewish community center if you like the amenities and people. When you attend the events, be outgoing and exchange contact information.

5. Put yourself in the position to meet Jewish people by joining leagues and attending social events at the facility regularly. If the facility has a gym or league team, consider joining so you can regularly see Jews with common interests.

6. Contact the people you meet at the events and arrange to socialize with them outside of the community center or synagogue.

Tips & Warnings

• When meeting new Jewish people, play Jewish geography and try to find a Jewish person in the area you both know. They will be more comfortable socializing with you if they feel you have a common acquaintance.

• Become active in the organization so other members will naturally want to introduce you to their friends.

• Keep in mind that many Jewish community centers and organizations are not open on Saturdays except to conduct services. Ask about the hours of operation before you join.

References

• CRJOrlando: Membership

Resources

• JCCA: Find a JCC
• Berkeley Parents Network: Jewish Organizations, Resources, and Advice