How to Make Your Own Romance Coupons

Create a gift that's as unique as the two of you.

For all who believe it is the thought that counts when it comes to gifts, romance coupons offer an opportunity to put a lot of yourself into a gift to your spouse. Certainly, these coupons allow you to save money and avoid shopping. But to make these true gifts of the heart, take time to consider what your partner wants, what you want to give her/him and what's unique and special about your relationship. Then get busy creating your own romance coupons.

Things You'll Need

• Art supplies
• or
• Computer and printer
• Laminating machine (optional)

Instructions

1. Make a list of specific activities to give as coupons. Think about how the two of you are special, both as individuals and as a couple. What moments brought you together? What personality traits do you love most? What does your partner love about you? Color in your mental image of what is best about your relationship.

   Now, think of activities that will increase the happiness quotient. Does your partner want more of your time? Does she express a need for some specific type of intimacy? Is there an activity you know your partner loves that somehow never makes it into the monthly schedule? Think of things your partner would love to receive that you will feel good about doing for her. Remember: A gift given grudgingly won't feel like much of a present, nor will your partner feel happy if the gifts derive solely from what you want.

2. Select a different types of activities to make into coupons. You can include sexual adventures the two of you want to experience together. You also might want to include moments of play and silliness, such as a tickle match; interludes of increased tenderness and emotional intimacy, such as an evening of confiding more deeply about your dreams; practical tasks, such as taking care of household chores; shared fun, such as an evening of dinner and dancing or an afternoon of biking and picnicking. Aim for the personal touch with your coupons.

3. Create your coupons. Make them attractive so your partner doesn't feel like the romance coupons were a last-minute thought. If you have an artistic side, create handmade coupons that your partner will appreciate for their beauty as well as their content. However, if you are all thumbs with art supplies, take advantage of technology. Scan images from magazines into your computer or find photos online that illustrate the activities you and your partner will enjoy. You may want to laminate the coupons to make them more durable and ensure that they don't disappear in a paper shuffle.

4. Present your coupons with flair. The time and place of gift-giving can make a big difference in creating a mood of love and romance. Tuck your coupons inside a beautiful card or give them along with a small gift, such as a CD of romantic music, or over dinner at a favorite restaurant.

References

• LovingYou: Create a Love Coupon Book
• Romantic-Tips: Love Coupons
• Links2Love.com: Love Coupons