How to Discuss Concerns Regarding Early Signs of Dementia
Does your loved one have more frequent lapses in memory or other problems with thinking or conduct? Dementia is one possible cause of these troubles.
Significant alterations in memory are not normal at any age. Take these changes seriously. A diagnosis of dementia is made after a series of discussions, tests and examinations with your loved one, the doctor and you, as well as with other family members if necessary. Your loved one also needs a physical and neurological examination, which looks at all other possible causes of his dementia.
Instructions
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Decide who should talk to your loved one with suspected dementia. Who has the best rapport with your loved one? Who does she trust the most?
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Talk to him when he is calm and in a good mood. Some people with early signs of dementia exhibit bizarre behavior and bursts of anger.
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Ask her if everything is all right. Discuss abnormal behaviors you are seeing. Assure her that you are worried, you care and you want to help. Remember to talk to her like an adult. Do not make her feel ashamed.
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Suggest that you see a doctor together so you can discuss your concerns with the doctor together. If he is reluctant, tell him you are going to the doctor for another reason.
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If your loved one refuses to see the doctor, join a dementia support group. Ask members for suggestions.
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Tips & Warnings
Remind her the symptoms are not her fault.
Tell her an accurate diagnosis means getting medication that helps her, the support she needs and critical information she can use.
Do not let his dementia go undiagnosed or untreated.
