How to Write the Perfect Online Personal Ad

The love game has changed, with online dating as the new field of play.

The dating game has changed, and in response, the players are altering their playbooks. While a love match was once played at bars, nightclubs and singles mixers, unattached men and women are now turning to a new field of play to ensure victory--the Internet. But with the millions of people who are searching the Web for love, to stand out amongst the pack, you need the perfect online dating personal ad. It should be clear, concise and put you in the perfect position to successfully play the love game.

Things You'll Need

• Computer
• Digital Photograph

Instructions

Write Your Ad

1. 

   Create a description of yourself for a potential mate.

   Describe yourself in three to five adjectives in the first line. In the second line, mention your age, if you have any children and give a basic description of your appearance.

2. 

   Let potential dates know what you are and are not looking for in a mate.

   Explain what you are and are not looking for in a potential mate, including gender. Make sure to point out if you are looking for a specific race, age, political affiliation or religion.

3. 

   Let people know if you are looking for someone nearby or are open to a long-distance relationship.

   Include your basic geographic location and if you are only looking to date someone who lives within a certain radius, or if you are open to a long-distance relationship.

4. 

   Include your e-mail address.

   Complete the ad by providing a contact e-mail address, and requesting an interested person contact you if they believe you would make a good match.

5. 

   Include a photo of yourself that was taken in the last year.

   Post a photograph of yourself with your ad. Choose a photograph of yourself that was taken in the past year and accurately reflects what you look like.

Tips & Warnings

• Use a friendly, upbeat writing tone in your ad. Be clear, concise and to the point. Include light humor, but don't go overboard. Be honest about your appearance.

• Be sure to not include your home address or phone number, and to carefully screen potential dates before meeting them. Also refrain from revealing too much personal information before you meet your date in person.

References

• iVillage

Resources

• Online Dating Advice