How to Understand Why Men Don't Call
So you met the guy of your dreams, had a few laughs and really seemed to hit it off. As you bade him farewell, he promised to call you and headed off into the sunset. Now, as you constantly check your phone for the fourth day straight, you find yourself asking questions like “Why hasn’t he called?” and “Is it something I said or did?” In actuality, a man will avoid calling a woman for a variety of reasons, the majority of which have more to do with him than with you.
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Instructions
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Consider the possibility that he never intended to call you in the first place. Many men simply enjoy the flirting process, and collecting phone numbers can serve as an ego booster.
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Consider the possibility that he only accepted your number out of politeness. Quite often, a man will try to end an exchange on a positive note, even if he does not feel a direct connection, according to Christian Carter, author of "Catch Him & Keep Him."
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Consider the possibility that he wants you to call first. Many men hesitate to make the first phone call for fear of appearing needy. If you have his phone number as well, try giving him a call and seeing if potential still exists.
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Consider the possibility that he misplaced your phone number. Believe it or not, it does happen on occasion.
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Tips & Warnings
Do not obsess over the precise reasons why a man did not call you. His reasons have no bearing on your self-worth.
