How to Introduce Significant Others
The English language has not caught up with American culture, as there are only a couple of words that are used to describe people in intimate relationships--husband/wife or fiance/fiancee, the latter pair of which isn't even English. To avoid any confusion about the nature of a relationship while making an introduction, keep it simple by introducing your partner by her name. This helps to avoid causing any feelings of discomfort with traditional guests, and later in conversation, the nature of the relationship can be revealed. Does this Spark an idea?
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Inform your significant other as to how he will be introduced to make sure that it is okay with him. If he expresses dissatisfaction with the proposed introduction, ask for suggestions. Insist on using the one that is the most simple and discreet.
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Introduce the significant other as agreed upon. Start by naming the other party and then introduce the significant other. Offer conversation starters by addressing shared domains of interest.
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Leave out the nature of the relationship unless the other party inquires, or it is an event where such information is already known. If asked, make a brief mention of the relationship as agreed upon with significant other and let the conversation progress as usual.
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Tips & Warnings
Keep your introduction agreement with your significant other. Respect her right to privacy regarding the relationship and only reveal as much as she wants to disclose.
Before entering into a social gathering, use a handkerchief to wipe your hands if needed to avoid shaking with wet palms.
Using titles like boyfriend or girlfriend, special friend, etc., are inappropriate for couples past their mid-20s.
