How to Not Be The Other Woman or Mistress

There is no excuse for infidelity and dealing with a married man or a man who is spoken for is a risky game to play. In doing this you invite unwanted drama, and potentially dangerous situations.

Many people tend to think that dealing with a married spouse gives them some sort of excitement, spontaneity or a rush of adrenaline, yet when the stuff hits the fan and the unexpected happens everyone wants to duck.

Chances are, you never dreamed of a life as the other woman so why be bothered?

What can be done to avoid being the other woman?

Here's how..

Things You'll Need

• Self-Respect
• Self-control

Instructions

1. Take Flight

   Once a man tells you he's married and still wants to get with you. It's best to run. Don't walk. Run! Don't go home with him. Don't exchange numbers. Just don't. You will be glad in the long run that you made this decision.

2. Have Some Self-Respect

   It's one thing to be into someone. But you should never love anyone more than you love yourself. It is important to know your own worth. If someone is willing to put you second then they are not worth your time or energy.

3. You are not the first, and you won't be the last

   If a man is willing to cheat with you, then nine times out of ten he will cheat on you. If you have decided to commit yourself to a relationship built on lies and deceit then you should not expect him to change his ways for you. Most guys don't leave their wives for the women they're seeing on the side. They will say anything and make whatever empty promise they can just to bed you as a conquest on a regular basis. And as the other woman, you will always be expendable.

4. Learn Self-Control

   The only person responsible for your actions is you. You are the only person in control of your choices, decisions and moral conduct. So if you decide to ever enter into an adulterous affair then the only person you will have to blame for whatever consequences may follow is yourself.

   Always make the right decision.