How to Try to Find Departed Loved Ones
Finding a departed loved one can be a life-changing experience. It makes us realize that we are not always alone. According to psychics and mediums, death is simply a transition and does not really mean the end. Although it may require a few attempts before you notice anything, patience and a positive state of mind will bring the best results.
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Things You'll Need
- Picture of the person you wish to contact
- Candles or incense (optional)
- Soothing music (optional)
Instructions
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Sit in a comfortable position with legs and arms uncrossed and take 10 to 15 minutes to relax with a picture of the person you wish to contact. Make sure your surroundings are quiet and free of distractions. Light some incense or candles if they make you feel good. Some psychics like to play soft meditational music, such as that of Kevin Kern or Steven Halpern, to put the mind at ease and "raise the vibration" to match the energy of angels, spirit guides and dead loved ones.
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Before opening any door to The Other Side, it is important to feel protected. Close your eyes and visualize a protective white blanket of light surrounding you from head to toe. Take several slow deep breaths and ask God, Yahweh, Jehovah or whatever name you know to be God to surround you and protect you and all in your home throughout this process. If you don't believe in God, Archangel Michael is a very powerful protector to call upon; his presence is felt immediately. You are now ready to try to contact the person in the picture.
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Looking at your loved one's picture, remember the love you shared with this person with a smile. If she has crossed over, she is in a happy, beautiful and joyful place, so in order for her to come through, your energy has to match that.
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Ask the surrounding angels and guides to help you connect with her.
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Close your eyes and imagine a blank screen while feeling the overwhelming love you felt in her presence while she was alive. Speak to her out loud and tell her all you want to say. If you have questions, now is the time to ask. She may or may not hear you, because there is much to do on the Other Side, and dead relatives are not around us all the time. If she is close by and hears you, you will see her in your mind and she will have a message for you. Be still, listen with this blank screen up for a few minutes and wait. Be patient.
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Thank the angels and guides for coming through and ask for the message to be given to her.
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Be aware of the signs of your loved one being around you throughout the day and especially in your dreams. You may suddenly think of her for no reason and she may speak to you through your mind while you are sitting in traffic. Maybe a song she loved will play on the radio or you will strangely crave a food she loved and be compelled to go buy or cook it. Dead loved ones may not want to scare you and may find it easier to communicate with you in your dreams, so pay attention to those as well.
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Tips & Warnings
It is more effective to try this after several months have passed since the person's death; sometimes it takes a while for the deceased to cross over. Extreme grief is also not conducive to contacting the dead.
Negative emotions, especially fear, will leave you vulnerable to psychic attack from negative energies or demons. Fear feeds the energy of negative entities, so always be sure to let it go and protect yourself.
