How to Talk to Girls About Their Body
Talking to young girls about their bodies can be an especially difficult subject to broach. It's important to speak with them with a sense of confidence and sensitivity to earn their trust. Be straightforward and informative with your statements, assuring them that there is nothing to be embarrassed or ashamed about. Be ready to answer the barrage of questions she's sure to have when you're finished.
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Start by creating a comfortable, private environment for the conversation. The young girl should feel that at ease enough to listen and ask any questions she has without fear of being overheard or embarrassed. You don't want her to feel like she has to worry about other people are listening to the conversation. Some ideal places for the talk are at home when the rest of the family is gone, at a park, or at the beach.
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Prepare your conversation. Be clear and thorough with your descriptions, utilizing charts and books to help illustrate your points. It will be easier for her to understand if there are visuals to accompany your talk. Avoid confusing nicknames for anatomy and don't be shy about the upcoming changes she may begin experiencing.
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Ask her if she has any questions about anything you talked about or anything she's heard at school or from friends. If she seems shy or embarrassed, lead the question and answer session by asking her if she understood everything you spoke about or if she'd like you to repeat anything. Be kind and understanding with your answers, even if you have to repeat them a few times.
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Finish the conversation by letting her know that she can always come to you with any questions she might have about her body and its functions. Reassure her that it's always better to get answers from a trusted adult than her younger, less informed peers.
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