How to Flatter and Impress a Guy
When you meet a new guy that you are interested in, there are many ways to go about making yourself known to him. Flattery is a great way to get him to notice and like you. If you just met a guy and want to impress him, there are a few steps that you can follow to impress him as well. A new relationship is fun and exciting once you get your guy to realize you are available.
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Use body language. Guys can pick up subtle cues in your body language. Subtle is the key word here. Smile when he looks at you. Lean into his voice when he is speaking to you. Keep eye contact when speaking with him. A gentle hand lightly touching his shoulder when you are trying to get his attention can work wonders. Stand around him but not directly by his side as you are not trying to show that you are desperate. Put yourself in his line of sight without remaining glued to him.
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Talk to him. Initiate conversation by asking questions. Give him compliments on his hair, clothes, smile. Make him feel confident without embarrassing him. Discuss your likes and dislikes. Give him openings in your conversation to ask his own questions of you.
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Wear pretty things. Dress up for him to notice. Include light perfume so that you smell great. Guys are visual creatures, so looking good will definitely be noticed, and smelling good is always a positive as well.
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Be yourself. No one is impressed by a girl that is fake or trying to be someone she is not. Do you really want to date a guy who is attracted to the fake you? It may work in the immediate time for some, but it will never work long term. Also, most people are good at picking out the fakes. Keep it real and be yourself.
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Enjoy yourself. Nothing will impress a guy as much as seeing you able to hang out and enjoy yourself without him. He will become interested as he sees that you are an independent person who does not need to hang on him. Your confidence will boost his confidence. Do not let these tasks be all that you are about, rather, enjoy the time and activities that you can do and let him notice that you are a fun loving , easy-to-get-along-with girl.
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