How to Get Your Boyfriend or Husband to Cuddle More

Cuddling helps couples feel closer to one another and eases our stresses. Some couples tend to put cuddling on the back burner for other important responsibilities such as household chores, children, and work related needs. And often times, men tend to forget cuddling as one of those vital needs a woman desires in a relationship. But, cuddling is one of the most important things you need to keep a bond strong, healthy, and loving. Here are some tips for getting your husband or boyfriend to cuddle more so that you can enjoy and more intimate and healthy relationship.

Instructions

1. Let your husband or boyfriend know how important intimacy is to you. Some men tend to get comfortable in a relationship and stop cuddling as much as they did when you two first met. This isn't because they don't love you, but more because they don't realize they aren't doing something you desire. Open up and talk about how you want more intimacy in your relationship. Tell your husband or boyfriend how good cuddling with him makes you feel. Let him know that cuddling makes you feel closer to him. Most men are willing to cuddle more if you just get them to recognize that you desire this. Sometimes, simply asking for more cuddle time will get you the bonding you need.

2. Offer to give your husband or boyfriend something he desires in return. While you may love cuddling, some men see it as an unnecessary thing. However, if you play your cards right and make a little deal that you are willing to give your man something he has been missing in the relationship, chances are...you'll get your cuddle time. This may mean that your man will request more love making, but what goes better with sex than cuddling? Tell your husband or boyfriend that you are willing to make more time for sex if he can give you cuddle time after. If your husband or boyfriend requests something else, tell him that you'd like at least 10 minutes of cuddle time a night and you'll give in return. Bargaining is often the best way to get what you want.

3. Take initiative if more cuddling is what you want. Simply grab your husband or boyfriend and wrap your arms around him. Often times, telling a man what you desire is best done by just doing it yourself. Some men don't want to listen to a drawn out speech about why they should or shouldn't do something. This is often seen as nagging. Instead, touch your man's hand, hug him gently, or grab his arm and put is around you. Do so quietly with a gently smile and your husband or boyfriend will understand what you want. Body language is one of the best ways to communicate and the best part is that your man will often listen. Next time you're in the mood to cuddle, simply do it and watch how your man reciprocates.

4. Be more loving toward your husband or boyfriend. Being sweet and showing love to your man will encourage him to want to cuddle with you. Some men enjoy the sweetness so much that it makes them want to cuddle you without being asked. One of the best ways to have someone be kind to you is to show them sweetness first. If things have not been good in your relationship, treating your man better will help to create a stronger bond and encourage him to be more intimate. You cannot expect your man to cuddle with you if you have not been very sweet to him. Most people will do for others whatever has been done to them. In other words, if you want some cuddle time with your special man, give him sweetness with loving kisses on the cheek, rubbing his back or shoulders, touching his hand when passing, or any other sweet gesture you can think of to show you care.