How to Become Friends with a Girl

Many guys do not know how to approach girls precisely because of the evident differences between guys and girls. The two sexes handle situations differently, and make different choices. What may be sweet for guys may be a total turn off for girls. What's funny for girls may be the corniest thing for guys. Approaching girls could be difficult for guys because they do not know how a girl would react or how to approach girls in such a way that they would not push.

Instructions

1. Be Friendly. Girls are of the human species so there's no need to be afraid of them and approaching them is not as complicated as most guys think. You just have to act natural. Smile and make the girl feel that they are safe with you and that you are genuine.

2. Treat Her with Respect. In any situation, whether you are talking with a girl or a guy, a parent, a child or whoever, you must always regard others with respect. Girls like to feel special so treat them with respect. Talk with a girl using decent words, no foul language or arrogance. Also avoid making snide remarks about girls passing by or making negative comments about your ex or your biology teacher because if you do not respect other girls or other people, she may think that you will not respect her either.

3. Open doors for her or offer seats. And never take advantage of her. A single advantageous act such as a lingering hand on her arm would spell disaster.

4. Be yourself. You do not have to pretend to be someone that you are not. You just have to be "you" and it's all up to her to decide if she would allow you to approach her again. But if you behaved well on your last encounter, then there is no reason why she would ignore you the next time you approach her so go ahead, be the cool and respectful guy that you are and make the first move.