How to Attract Men - The Best Ways to Get His Attention

Make eye contact to lock him in.

If you have trouble attracting men and getting a date, you may be unknowingly sending bad vibes that push men away. Men think differently than women, so you have to understand how the male psyche works in order to get his attention.

Instructions

1. Play hard to get. The worst thing you can do is to smother a guy or appear desperate. Men are attracted to the thrill of the chase. If you're chasing after him, you're taking away the challenge. Keep it low-key. Don't come on too strong. Keep him on the edge of his seat. Anticipation will make him want you more. If you act way too into him early on, he'll wonder why you are so desperate. Maintain your composure.

2. Be mysterious. A huge part of attracting men is not giving it all away. Don't talk his ear off about every detail of your life or feelings. Think about what you say carefully and don't fill the conversation with idle gabbing. Also, don't be so available all the time. Make him wonder where you are and what you're doing.

3. Display intelligence and depth. Don't say "like" and "um" in every sentence. Intelligence is sexy. A smart woman who knows what she wants and how to get it will attract men everywhere she goes. Displaying your intellect reveals that you have depth. That depth of personality and mysterious air about you will attract men more effectively than coming across as dim.

4. Be fun, in ways that men think are fun. This rule of attraction seems simple enough, but so many girls get it wrong. Don't be too much of a stereotypical "girl." Be able to let your hair down and tell jokes, watch sports, play video games or poker with him and try to enjoy the things that he enjoys. He's not interested in holding your purse while you shop. Nor does he care what happened on last week's episode of Days of Our Lives. Hang out at sports bars. Flirting with men at a sports bar and showing you enjoy beer and football helps make him want you.

5. Take care of your appearance with good grooming habits. A woman who takes care of herself will attract men easier than one who doesn't. Shower with nice-smelling bath products. Use a feminine scented deodorant. Brush your teeth well and always keep mints and gum on hand. If you talk to a guy and your breath is less than fresh, he's not going to notice anything else about you. Keep your hair neat and clean and take pride in your looks. Use a perfume that smells sweet and sensual.

6. Dress to kill. Dress in clothes that make you feel sexy. You don't have to look like a tramp, just keep in mind the styles that are attractive to men. Wear feminine clothing that accentuates your figure and hugs your body just right. Use the colors red or pink to your advantage.

7. Flirt with body language. Lean in close to him when you talk. Touch his hand or shoulder during conversation. Smile and be genuinely interested in what he has to say. Turn your body toward him when you two are in close proximity. Play with your hair a bit and bite your bottom lip. But don't make these flirting techniques over-exaggerated and noticeable. Just flirt naturally and casually while talking with him. Using body language when you flirt is very attractive to men.

References

• Get the Guy: 3 Effortless Ways to Get a Guy to Like You From Across the Room… or Anywhere Else