How to See Relatives After Death
One of the most challenging times in life is when a relative passes away. It is true that seances can sometimes result in positive contact with a late relative. However, performing a seance must be approached with caution. Raymond Moody, author of "You Can See Them Through the Mirror," writes, "About a quarter of subjects saw those whom they did not expect to meet." When performing a seance, you should have an experienced person with you. This person may be a medium.
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Things You'll Need
- At least 3 participants
- Round or oval table
- Aromatic food
- Incense
- Lighter or matches
- Candles
Instructions
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Find an experienced person, or medium, to conduct the seance for you. You can locate a local psychic through a business directory or networking site.
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Invite another person, so that your group numbers three. Some say that the group number should be divisible by three, so six people will be good too. Avoid people who are cynical about the seance or giddy or fearful, according to The New Age Dictionary. This can bring the mood down the mood of everyone else. The people in your group should be serious and dedicated.
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Set the table with candles and some aromatic food, which is said to lure spirits. A round or oval table is beneficial because it helps the members sit more closely, comfortably and naturally. Aromatic food would include any baked goods like cookies or pies, or freshly cooked meats.
Before you begin, according to Cantrap.net (an online clearinghouse for magic information), you should create a "spirit-friendly environment" by serving snacks to your guests and being sure that everyone is relaxed. Incense is also useful in promoting this environment. Any scent is sufficient, so choose the one you prefer.
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Begin the seance when the sun is down. The members should sit in a circle holding hands. All distractions such as music, noise and unnecessary lighting should be eliminated. Before you begin, be sure everyone in the group is committed. Once the seance begins, no one may leave nor even let go of the hands of the people beside them. If someone becomes scared and leaves, they are opening the door to letting in unwanted spirits. Anyone less-than-committed should leave before the seance begins. If less than two people remain, you should postpone the seance until at least a third member is found.
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The medium should begin the meeting by asking for a blessing on the seance. He should ask the members to breathe deeply, focus their attention on the spirit world and recite along with him the following chant for summoning a spirit: "Our dear spirit [name of relative], we ask that you join us. We ask for your knowledge. insight and answers. We summon you with the spirit of love and light."
According to Cantrap.net, this chant should be repeated until you hear a response. The most common response is rapping, although you also may hear a voice, see an audible form, or see the medium take the form of the spirit by announcing that he is now the spirit you were seeking. You may now ask the spirit your questions.
If you repeat the chant many times and do not hear a response, follow the lead of the medium. This person will know whether or not a spirit will be arriving.
Remember to not assume that the spirit is necessarily your relative. There are many impostors in the spirit world, but as long as you stay in the room with joined hands, nothing can harm you. If the spirit shares information that only your relative would know, and you are sure you hadn't talked about these facts earlier in the evening, this spirit is likely your relative.
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Before leaving, you must dismiss the spirit. Each member should individually thank the spirit by saying something like, "Thank you, spirit, for your presence and insight." The medium can then share a final blessing. You may then stop holding hands and are then free to depart.
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Tips & Warnings
Negative effects may also come from holding a seance. Do not play with the supernatural without a firm understanding of the consequences. Do not make any attempts to contact the dead out of desperation.
