How to Open a Best-Man Speech

Being the best man is a job that comes with serious responsibilities, including giving a speech in front of all the wedding guests. The opening of the speech sets the tone for what follows, so it is important to start off right.

Instructions

1. Introduce yourself briefly. It is best to keep this information as minimal as possible. Remember, this day is about the bride and groom, not you.

2. Start with a serious and congratulatory tone. Focus first on the importance of the occasion and the commitment the bride and groom are making to one another. Avoid the temptation to begin by shocking the audience with a joke or an outrageous statement.

3. Congratulate both the bride and the groom. Though the best man's speech traditionally focuses on the groom, take the time to congratulate and acknowledge the bride as well.

4. Take the time to recognize anyone who has made an extraordinary effort to attend the wedding.

5. Segue into the body of the speech. Now is the time to end the serious tone. When using jokes, remember to be respectful of the crowd.

Tips & Warnings

• Know your best man and your audience. If the crowd is conservative, it is best to avoid offending anyone with off-color jokes or comments.

Resources

• Best-Man-Speech Insight