How to Date After Age 55
For mature singles, the idea of dating may seem intimidating. For those individuals who were involved in long marriages, the dating scene has changed dramatically since their adolescent years. However, many seniors today do choose to seek romantic companionship. These tips may make it easier for those over age 55 to reenter the dating scene.
- Difficulty:
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Update your appearance. See a professional hair stylist for a cut and color. Even if you decide to keep gray hair, make sure it is silver and not yellow. Go through your wardrobe and weed out unflattering pieces. Keep as physically active as possible.
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Consider online dating. Several services are geared toward mature daters. A survey conducted by AARP found that one in 14 singles ages 40 to 59 regularly uses the Internet to find dates. Match.com includes 1.5 million members over 50, about 10 percent of its total membership. Once you join, be active on the site to maximize potential dates and matches.
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Try speed dating. Think of speed dating as the 21st century version of a mixer. Participants are screened by age groups and sign up in advance. They meet one another in a series of short introductions. Each participant indicates which individuals he wishes to meet with again. Mutual matches are informed and are able to arrange another meeting for a more conventional date. There are fewer speed dating events geared toward seniors, and those that do tend to fill up quickly. If you see a speed dating event that appeals to you, sign up right away.
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Don't count out meting the old-fashioned way. Join volunteer and activity groups that interest you, be active in your place of worship, take classes and participate in travel outings. Focusing on activities that are geared toward mature adults will maximize your chances of meeting potential dates.
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Tips & Warnings
Post a flattering, but recent photo for an online dating profile. Put thought into the text of your dating profile. Be honest about yourself and what you are seeking.
It's OK to seek companionship as well as dating. In fact, taking steps to develop a full life can only increase your chances of meeting someone compatible.
Try to relax and enjoy the process of meeting people rather than stressing out over the idea of finding romance.
Seniors should be cautious about giving too much personal information early in the dating process. Scam artists sometimes prey on mature singles, especially women.
