How to Find Friends to Hang Out With in My Area
Making friends can be difficult at any age, but putting yourself in the right position to meet people is vital to finding friends to hang out with. Put your shyness on the shelf and get out into your immediate neighborhood to give yourself the opportunity to find people who share your interests and hobbies. Being involved in your community via classes, volunteer opportunities or clubs means adding plenty of new friends to your circle.
- Difficulty:
- Moderately Easy
Instructions
Things You'll Need
- Gym membership
- Access to a library
- Community newspaper
- Access to volunteer opportunities
- Access to a church
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Join a gym. Gyms not only help you get in shape, they're also great places to meet people in your area. Choose a neighborhood health club and sign up for some yoga, spin or other classes and arrive a little early for stretching and socializing. Start up conversations with classmates seated near you and identify common interests. Meet up for a smoothie at the club's bar when you are done with your workout to get to know your new friends better.
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Check out the classes and groups at your local library. Your neighborhood library is filled with potential area friends and often plays host to special events and volunteer opportunities. Sign up for book clubs, social groups or even language classes to help you meet your neighbors and make new friends.
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Join an interest-based club such as a scrapbooking group or even a ghost-hunting group. Interest- and hobby-based clubs help you instantly meet people with whom you share common passions and allow you the chance to actively involve yourself and build relationships over time. Find club listings in your community newspaper or events board.
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Browse online sources such as Meetup.com. Find an online forum that is specifically for your community and then begin contacting people that have similar backgrounds or interests as yourself. Social-networking sites like MySpace and FaceBook allow you to search out people based on hometowns or areas so you can browse the profiles and find other users who want to make friends.
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Meet your neighbors. Host a barbecue, garden party or block party to help you get to know your neighbors and make friends with the people nearest you. Create a flyer at home and place them in neighbors' mailboxes as you walk through your neighborhood. Be sure to list a RSVP phone number so that you know how many people to expect.
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Volunteer. Volunteer opportunities abound no matter where you live, and your involvement with groups like the Red Cross or Habitat for Humanity will help you make friends with other community-minded neighbors.
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Join a church. Churches are full of loving people, and organized church activities give you plenty of ways to get involved and get to know your neighbors. Sign up for committees and attend after-service functions to meet your fellow parishioners and make new friends.
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Tips & Warnings
Create a business card with your personal information on it to share with new friends. Include your address, phone number and email address so they can contact you.
Don't put yourself in dangerous situations by meeting strangers privately. If you are meeting people you've connected with online, be sure to meet in a public place until you get to know each other.
