How to Tell Your Parents You Are Dating
Telling your parents you are dating can be awkward, but it is important to keep them informed of important changes in your life. Your parents may set rules or guidelines for dating to protect you. Remember to always follow your parents' rules when you start a new relationship.
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Instructions
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Talk to your parents about the person you are dating. Tell them about the person and his interests. Make sure to talk about the positive aspects of the person. If he is an honor student, let them know. The more responsible he is, the more comfortable they will be with you dating him.
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Let your parents meet the person you are dating in a casual setting. Have her come to the game you're playing in, or a performance you're in. Introduce her to your parents.
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When you are alone with your parents, tell them you are dating him. Be prepared to answer questions about his background, family and activities.
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Talk to your parents about their expectations for you in this new relationship. Let them know you are willing to follow their rules. Suggest having your girlfriend over for dinner so they can get to know her better. They will be more comfortable letting you go out with her if they know her well.
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If your parents are still apprehensive, have your friends talk to your parents about your new boyfriend. Sit down with your friends and your parents so they can ask questions about him. Volunteer to go on group dates if your parents think you are too young to date.
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Listen to your parents' concerns or advice. Follow their rules, even if you do not agree with them. Your parents want to make sure you are safe and make good decisions.
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Tips & Warnings
Keep a constant dialogue with your parents. Talking to them will become more comfortable with time. They will appreciate the communication and you will build a strong relationship with them.
