How to Write Personal Thank You Notes to Friends
Writing thank you notes is an expression of common courtesy, even among friends. Whenever someone gives you a gift-whether of time, services or an item-you should send a personal thank you. Thank you notes should include only the thank you message and compliments to the gift giver Send an individual thank you note to each person who gave you a gift; don't send a group thank you.
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Instructions
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Start your letter to a personal friend with the standard, "Dear First Name,".
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Write a sentence directly thanking the friend for the specific thing or service: "Thank you very much for the bright red cable sweater that you gave me for my birthday on Saturday."
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Write a few sentences about why the gift was thoughtful and how you plan to use it, if applicable. Don't mention anything that could be construed as negative, such as, "Although the shirt did not fit...." If there is a problem with the gift, refrain from mentioning it in the note. Instead, focus on the good aspects of the gift.
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Choose a complimentary closing, such as, "With gratitude," and sign your name.
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Tips & Warnings
Use a thank you card instead of stationery if you prefer. It is traditional to use cursive writing. Don't type a personal thank you note unless your handwriting is completely illegible.
