How to Divorce an Abusive Man
If you are thinking about divorcing an abusive man, make a plan. Abusive husbands try to prevent women from filing for divorce by using intimidation, control tactics, violence or threaten to take the children away. Women have the legal right to divorce their husband without being threatened or bullied. Domestic violence is against the law in every state. Abusive spouses become more violent when a woman tries to leave. Safety is your first priority, especially if you have children. Find resources that will help you plan a successful and safe divorce. There are many domestic violence resources that are free or low cost.
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Contact a Domestic violence hotline. Before you file for divorce, contact a domestic violence hotline or shelter for the correct plan of action. There are lots of resources for women experiencing domestic violence that include: shelters, job training, free or low-cost legal services, counseling, and child care. The National Domestic Hotline also has a website with information.
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If an abusive husband is using emotional or physical abuse against you, file a restraining order or order of protection. If your life is in immediate danger, file for an emergency protective order ordered by a Judge. A restraining order can be filed in family court. A domestic violence hotline or shelter can help you determine if a restraining order or protective order is the right choice for you.
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Move-in with family or friends. Move out of the home before your spouse is served with divorce papers. Abusive husbands might become enraged once served with divorce papers. Living with parents or family members will help support you through this difficult time. He might think twice about acting crazy at a family or friend's house in front of witnesses.
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Tolerate no harassment. Do not let your husband send harassing or threatening emails, letters or phone calls during divorce proceedings. Document everything that constitutes harassment. It can be used in court during the divorce proceedings.
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Find low-cost or free legal services. Many states and individual counties offer free or low-cost legal services specifically to help domestic violence victims file for divorce. Some legal groups offer free services to handle the entire divorce case. Many states offer fee waivers for court filing fees for low income women.
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