How to Cope With Narcissistic Relatives
Coping with narcissitic relatives can be challenging, especially if the relative is a person that you love, and do not want to cut out of your life. You need to decide how you are going to handle the narcisstic relative. If you choose to maintain a relationship with the narcissist, than you must accept the fact that you can never change her; only she can choose to change herself.
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Narcissistic relatives may be delusional and have a skewed version of reality. They perceive themselves as superior and suffer from delusions of grandeur. Always bear in mind that you are not to blame for their behaviour. Be civil, and try limit the amount of time that you spend with narcissistic relatives. Do not let anything that a narcissistic relative says to you, affect you. Do not lower yourself down to his level.
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If you love the narcissistic relative, and can't cut her off completely, then you need to realize that you must keep your distance for your own well being. Maintain a positive outlook, have a sense of humor, and develop thick skin. It will be a challenge to be around a relative who is narcissistic. It can be emotionally draining, and often times extremely negative.
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When you are dealing with a narcissistic relative, you may experience abuse, and feel broken, unhealthy and filled with hurt. The narcissist will blame everyone else for their problems. He will distort the truth, cause you to feel pain and confusion. Realize that he is in a dark place, and as a result are emotionally and verbally abusive towards others. Narcissistic relatives will manipulate you, don't get locked in.
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Tips & Warnings
If you feel that the narcissistic relative is exhibiting signs that he is a danger to himself or others, immediately contact your local law enforcement agency.
