How to Get to Know a Guy at a Concert
Many women have found that concerts are swarming with hot guys, and not only those in the band. However, with loud music playing and crowds head-banging, a concert venue can often be a difficult place to get to know someone. With a few slick moves, though, gathering bits and pieces of likes, dislikes and personality quirks of a guy at a concert is easier than you may think.
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Give eye contact when the band is on. Whether you have to look behind you in order to give eye contact to the guy you're interested in or he is to the side of you, try your best to get and give eye contact. Lock eyes for a quick second, give a little smile and turn back to focusing to the music.
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Inch your way closer to him gradually. Move closer to him as you spot an opportunity within the crowd at a general admission show or standing-only room. If the concert has assigned seats, this may not be a possibility.
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Bump into him "accidentally." This can be done in a standing-room only concert while the band is playing or at the merchandise booth or food cart. Lock eyes again and apologize for being a klutz. Laugh at the situation to show of your smile and show him you can laugh at yourself. His response to this will give you insight to his personality.
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Strike up a conversation either about the band that's playing or something else. Tell him what your favorite song by the band you're seeing is, or tell him that he looks familiar and ask if he's been to another concert recently. This will give you an idea of what other bands he enjoys.
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Ask the guy if he'd like to go out for drinks or coffee after the show, since many people will be doing just that after a concert anyway. He may be more apt to comply at this event than if you were in another circumstance. If not, give him your number and hope for the best.
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