How to Attract Shy Guys
Attracted to shy guys? Do you go for guys who are more timid, introverted, and meek? If so, you will have to learn a few specific skills to help you attract shy guys and penetrate their natural defensive barriers. Read on for details!
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Instructions
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DON'T BE AGGRESSIVE
Shy guys, after all, are timid and easily spooked. Therefore, to attract shy guys, avoid approaching them with any aggressive or in-your-face types of behaviors. This will scare them and make them withdraw further. Slow and steady is the name of the game when trying to attract shy guys!
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BE FRIENDLY AND OPEN
Shy guys are naturally attracted to women who are friendly and open. These types of women are less threatening to shy guys and are more likely to compel a shy guy to open up. To attract shy guys, convey a warm, open, and receptive demeanor when in their presence. Smile. Nod. Wave hello. Convey your interest in subtle, non-threatening ways!
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USE TOUCH
Use touch, i.e, a touch on the arm, a friendly poke, a tap, to get a shy guy's attention. Physical contact is a great way to convey romantic/sexual interest without being too overt or aggressive. The skillful use of touch is a great way to attract shy guys.
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USE EYE CONTACT
But not too much. To attract shy guys, use occasional eye contact to signal that you are interested. Don't stare or use prolonged, excessive eye contact; this will scare most shy guys and cause them to withdraw. Instead, use brief episodes of eye contact -- a few seconds here, a few seconds there.
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BE PROACTIVE
Shy guys very rarely take the initiative when it comes to starting conversations. So, in order to attract shy guys, you will have to take a bit of conversational initiative. Introduce yourself; ask questions; make comments or inquiries. Don't be interrogative or invasive; simply convey your interest by trying to initiate conversation. Go slow and easy. For shy guys, a little can be a lot!
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Tips & Warnings
Be patient; shy guys generally are slow to warm up
Many shy guys are deep individuals who are worth slowly building a relationship with
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