How to Talk to Your Divorce Lawyer
Your divorce lawyer is responsible for coordinating all aspects of your case. As you work with your lawyer, remember that she must keep a number of parties updated on the status of your divorce, including the court, your spouse's attorney and her support staff. To make sure that you stay up to date on your case's developments, take the lead in communicating with your lawyer. Talk to her regularly and ask specific questions about the status of your divorce.
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Plan ahead. Before calling or meeting with your lawyer, make a list of questions, concerns and issues that you want to address. This will save time and keep your discussion on track.
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Be specific. In addition to getting an overview of the divorce process, ask your lawyer questions about time frames, documents you will need, deadlines and fees. This will help you get the most out of your discussions and ensure that you and your attorney are on the same page.
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Ask for clarification if you don't understand something. If your divorce lawyer uses technical terms you don't understand or if you are confused about how your case is progressing, ask your lawyer to explain what he means.
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Be calm and respectful. Even though divorces can bring out frustration, anger and other strong emotions, do not yell at your lawyer or use profane language during your meetings. If you do not think your lawyer is doing her job properly, try to rectify the situation professionally.
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Ask your divorce lawyer the best way to contact him. While some lawyers prefer phone calls and email, other attorneys may wish to update you in person. During your initial consultation, talk to your lawyer about his preferred method of communication.
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