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How to Notice Signs a Guy Could Snap

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By Natalie Hernandez
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In many cases a guy does not become violent at all with their partner until the relationship comes to an end. It is important to recognize common signs he could snap and do physical harm to you. Many times his intentions are to do physical harm to himself in front of the his partner, but rage builds up and takes over and he snaps. Here are the most common signs to recognize when things could escalate to tragedy.

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  1. Step 1

    Being possessive -

    If he is trying to control just about every aspect of your life then right there should be enough to signal a red flag. If he is overly jealous or controlling it is a bad way to live for both you and for him.

  2. Step 2

    Sudden personality shifts -

    If he seems fine one minute and then the next minute he is acting crazy, then beware. It is a dangerous sign that he could snap in a heartbeat.

  3. Step 3

    Blames you often -

    When things go wrong everything is always your fault and he is always right, which can only mean you are always wrong!

  4. Step 4

    Suicidal comments -

    This is an obvious flag to be aware of. He may make random comments about killing himself if you leave him or something else similar, this is just a scare tactic. He may or may not be serious, but it is no joke!

  5. Step 5

    Psychological tactics -

    There are several different ways one can use psychological tactics to scare you or take advantage of you. For instance threatening you, crying to make you feel bad for him, putting fear in you or rage.

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on 11/18/2009 Wow this is really scary thank you for sharing

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on 11/16/2009 You're doing a real service in sharing this information. Well done.

kims3003 said

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on 11/15/2009 Thanks for a neat article. A+++

jenng said

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on 11/15/2009 GREAT ARTICLE ON How to Notice Signs a Guy Could Snap 5*

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on 11/15/2009 I come across 1,2 and 3 sometimes :o) You are very observant when it comes to write about these things. Thanks for sharing. I always end up picking on him like *&^% once he gets normal ... LOL! 5*

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