How to Get a Guy in 5 Days
Dating is rough. Single women everywhere want to get a guy--and get him right now. Dating tips and sites give you idea after idea on capturing a man's attention. But what's a girl to do? The best advice is the simplest: be yourself. Yet, while that's good advice, it doesn't seem like enough. Here's a step-by-step guide on how to get a guy in 5 days.
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Instructions
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Do a personal inventory. Do you have confidence when approaching guys? Look at yourself in the mirror. You are beautiful. Say it, believe it and know it. Smile and remind yourself that you're attractive and worthwhile and there's a man out there who will love you for you.
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Take some time before you go out on your quest to take care of yourself. Give yourself a facial. Paint your nails. If you can afford it, buy some new clothes. Do all the little things that make you feel even sexier.
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Ask your friends about your flirting style. See if they have any pointers for what you might be doing wrong. Read a few magazine articles on how to flirt and ask guy friends what works on them. Do a little research before your big quest begins.
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Tell all of your friends you're ready for blind dates. Ask them to throw a "leftovers" party where they bring a date that didn't work out for them, but might work out for someone else.
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Network, network, network. Get yourself out there. Go to every event you can think of and be yourself. Talk to guys, but avoid being desperate. Start simple conversations about favorite hobbies, activities, and sports. Ask open-ended questions and be honestly interested in the answers.
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Listen to your body. Are you physically drawn or attracted to the man you're talking to? Is your body literally pulling itself away? If there isn't an instant reaction in the positive direction, move on to the next guy. Your body knows within the first few minutes of meeting someone if there's an attraction. If you want to get a guy in 5 days, you can't waste your time on someone that doesn't quickly interest you.
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Allow him to take the lead. Yes, you want to get a man in 5 days, but you want him to want you, right? Continue chatting up the guy and allow him to ask you for your number. Give him hints. Make a comment about a movie or concert you're "dying" to see. Mention that you can't seem to find a friend to drag to an event. This not only gives him date ideas, but opens up the floor for him to say, "Well, why don't I take you?"
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Relax and enjoy your first date with your new guy. Again, be yourself. Continue to ask him questions, but begin to get more intimate now. Ask him about his family, his dreams, his career. Limit the physical activity to a kiss, and you will have this guy coming back for more.
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Tips & Warnings
Take a friend with you to these events to provide you with a support system. But only take one friend. It's easy for a man to approach two women, but more than that can seem overwhelming.
Watch what you wear. You want to look attractive but not easy. Pick one asset to show off, your top or bottom, and only show that off. Wearing a low-cut shirt and a very short skirt sends a message that you're merely looking for sex, not a relationship.
