How to Care for Elderly Family Members

Caring for elderly parents or relatives becomes a reality for millions of people every year. The elderly population is growing because people are living longer than ever before. It is entirely possible that your parents will live long enough to require your care.

Instructions

1. Encourage your loved one to have their future plans in place. These can include establishing long-term care insurance and appointing a power of attorney. Your loved one also needs a living will and a last will and testament. It is important to have these things completed before a person becomes incompetent or incapacitated.

2. Prepare your loved one's home by installing grab bars in the bathroom he will use. If possible, have a walk-in shower available for his use and equip it with a nonslip mat. Make every effort to create a safe environment for your loved one.

3. Know what resources are available in your area. Check with your local social-services agency to find out about respite care and personal care services. Most seniors on a fixed income qualify for Medicaid services that you may not even know about.

4. Take a break from taking care of your loved one. Understand that you will need to separate yourself from the situation sometimes. Take care of yourself and be aware that your loved one may eventually require more care than you can give. Have a plan to place your loved one in a nursing home, if necessary. Consult with his doctor and watch for signs of deterioration.

5. Be gentle and kind to your loved one. Elderly people often suffer from dementia and can be obstinate. Don't argue or try to reason with him. Redirect his mind with a new activity.

References

• Caring for the Elderly

Resources

• Medicare