How to Encourage Positive Behavior in Young Children
It can be hard for many students to develop positive behaviors, particularly if they don't enjoy school or struggle with learning difficulties. They may have feelings of pressure, negative expectations in the face of perceived obstacles or a fear of failure. This makes it that much more difficult for positive attitudes and behaviors to take root. But a solid education is so essential that it's crucial to find ways to replace negative feelings toward school with positive, proactive views.
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Steps to Positive Behaviors
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Model positive behaviors for your children. Your children are always watching you even if you don't think they are. They are very likely to follow your behavior patterns. When they see you doing things that are good or positive, they will also. When they see you engage in negative behaviors or talk, so will they.
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Set realistic expectations. These expectations might cover areas such as getting homework done every night, behaving well in the classroom, getting a good grade on a certain project or test, and so on. These expectations are important motivations, so make them specific and achievable, but don't be afraid to set the bar high. People achieve according to the expectations set for them.
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Reinforce good habits with rewards. When children perform well on a test or have exhibited good behavior over a certain period of time, reward them. Give them an extra 15 minutes of television time, take them to a favorite restaurant or come up with another treat. Students who have performed well and worked hard deserve a little recognition. This reinforces good habits and makes them more likely to occur again.
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Spend time studying with your children. Set aside some time each night to help them with homework. This shows them that schoolwork is important and that they are important too. This is also a great time to talk with your children about the material they are working on, reinforcing the concepts and helping them make real-world connections to what they are studying.
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Tips & Warnings
Always let your children know you love them and care for them.
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very helpful site.
