How to Prove Your Loyalty

Like a lot of the things that take time to build, loyalty definitely doesn't happen overnight. Maybe you might ask, "How can I prove that I'm loyal?" There will certainly be many situations in which you will have the opportunity to prove your loyalty without a shadow of doubt such as taking a bullet for someone. Although not to that extreme, learn how you can prove your loyalty through all aspects of your life.

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

Instructions

1. A loyal person must be able to keep his or her mouth shut, especially when it comes to issues related to those they promise loyalty to. Although it's a simple rule, many people find it hard to keep his or her mouth shut when it comes to "family" business, regardless if it is their cup of tea or not.

2. Next, go the extra mile! Do more than what's expected. You might wonder, how does this prove your loyalty? Well, it shows that you put in the effort to go beyond what you have to do. That efforts stands out from the rest of the crowd. It shows that you're selfless and that you'll do things for the greater good of others.

3. Along with keeping your mouth shut, one must never speak out of line. By following orders without arguing, it shows that you understand instructions, and proves that you're a good soldier.

4. Respect authority. When a seniority gives you instructions, carry out the order and do as you're told. One day, it'll be your turn to give orders, and the last thing you would want is someone who is questioning your every move.

5. Actions speak a thousand words. If you can't prove your loyalty without actions, it's futile. Someone's loyalty can be tested when they have to back up their words with something solid.

6. Another great way to prove your loyalty is to take the fall for the team. If your boss screws up, step up the plate and take the blame instead. If you get busted by the cops while hanging out with some friends, take the blame alone. This will definitely help rack up valuable loyalty points. Remember, do it without hesitation or without questions to make your loyalty sincere.

7. Be consistent. Consistency shows reliability, which shows loyalty. People like reliability. It's like playing a game of baseball. If the empire calls something against you, and sometimes calls in your favor, he is being consistent.

8. Lastly, stick around even when times get tough. A lot of the times, people can see true loyalty when times are tough. If you're out in the battlefield outnumbered by enemies, true loyal friends will fight to the death, protecting one another. It's the servants who stay by their king's side, despite being defeated and surrounded by the enemy without deserting.

[edwardvance]

on 11/9/2009 great article! I really like step 5, actions speak louder than words.