How to Get Her To Watch Porn

Women and porn sometimes do not go together well. Why? Women tend to see how fake male porn can be, and it isn't quite the kind of sex women would aspire to. Maybe it's because she sees it as women being degraded and into sexual objects. Or, perhaps it goes against religious beliefs or personal values. All in all, porn might not be for everyone. However, learn some ways to introduce porn to your lady to see if she finds some that might appeal to her!

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

Instructions

1. First, talk about it with your girl. Maybe she finds it disgusting or degrading to women. You need to be careful on her emotional responses. If she seems to be more open, you can explore it further.

2. Has your girl ever watched porn before? What was her experience of it? Does she have any preferences? You need to allow her to express her freedom of thought. Maybe she enjoys watching men have sex, which will not be comfortable with you---if you're straight. Remember, many women like different types of porn with descriptions; perhaps not something that YOU like.

3. The next step is to work out a strategy. If what she wanted was to lock up all of the porn stars in the sex industry, maybe it's a good idea to never bring the topic up again. However, if she is in favor of spending a night watching people have sex, proceed and enjoy! If she is in middle grounds with the whole porn idea, find out where she exactly stands, and work out a way to bring her around to watch and enjoy porn as much as you do.

4. Perhaps the two of you can visit a sex store or investigate online. Online has more selections and won't give you the embarrassment of entering a room with triple X's. Choose a couple movies the two if you might enjoy. Remember to be respectful and tactful. You are pretty much using the female gender as a sexual object when you promote porn, so don't go overboard. Remember, there is nothing wrong enjoying a bit of a sexual adventure and erotic movies, but remember to know when to stop.

5. Now that you are slowing trying to incorporate porn into your relationship, why not make it a regular thing? Choose a couple of movies and have a night in. Remember to make her feel and play an integral role when choosing movies, and she'll definitely respond more favorably.

6. Never let her watch something she is not ready for. In addition, never compare her to other porn stars in the films. For example, never say " That looks pretty good and might feel good, could you try that on me?" or, "I bet you can do it better."

7. Make sure to be aware of any signs to indicate if she is not having a good time and be sensitive about this. Sometimes, women hide their feelings and do not want to ruin the fun. But, this is not what it's about. It's about the time shared together.

8. Lastly, never use porn as a substitute for intimacy with your lady. You neglect the real woman in your life, and spend hours in front of the screen.

[torycar]

on 11/17/2009 Man you are soooo Cool man!!! For reall!!!