How to Flirt with Your Boyfriend

Any charismatic woman will tell you - flirting is definitely an art. Not everyone is naturally a great flirt, but not to worry - it's not hard to learn and if you pay attention and aren't afraid to embrace your sexuality and step out of your comfort zone, you too will be a great flirt.

Things You'll Need

• Charisma
• Confidence

Instructions

1. Wear an Outfit that Builds Your Confidence.

   Feeling confident inside will show on the outside and it will make you more comfortable with expressing yourself. Do you have an awesome dress you look great in? How about a beautiful blouse? Put it on! Don't forget to accessorize!

   Don't wear something you aren't comfortable in or makes you not feel like yourself. Looking great while feeling un-confident will not come across well to other people.

2. Don't Be a Stiff!

   Be really playful. Dont worry about little things or if you trip or do something that displays inperfection. Everyone messes up sometimes, and trust me, other people don't really care about little things like that, so you shouldnt get hung up on them if they happen. Just play it off, laugh about it and move on! People like people who dont take themselves too seriously.

   Have a good time, make some jokes and just be you, flaws and all!

3. Focus!

   When you are sitting next to your guy, angle your body towards him. That shows interest and that your attention is focused on him. He will pick up on that and be very comfortable talking to you. Make eye contact and be sure not to cross your arms - that's a defensive position that subconsciously tells people to back off and don't get close!

4. Touch him!

   When he makes a joke, put your fingers lightly on his shoulder or knee as you laugh. If he's being silly, playfully poke or touch him. While you're talking, occasionally touch his arm or hands. When you first greet him, start with a hug and warm hello. This will show you are comfortable and that you wouldn't mind for him to touch you back!

5. Bring on the Compliments!

   Compliment him on things you actually like about him. Don't make up compliments just to say them. You have to be genuine and honest here! Guys especially like when you compliment their accomplishments or things they are doing that they are proud of.

6. Don't Be Pushy!

   Don't be too strong with your flirting if he isn't responding in a similar manner. He may not be interested in flirting or you may be crossing the line. Just pay attention to his body language and what he says in response to know if you should change the topic, or stop flirting all together.