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Step 1
Decrease stress in your daily life. Sure, it's easier said than done, but it can be accomplished. Find out what part of your life causes you the most stress, and work to eliminate it. Although you can't quit your job or just pawn off your kids, there are many ways to work through the stress to help alleviate it. This might include talking to the people causing the problem or reworking your schedule so you have more time for activities you enjoy.
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Step 2
Eat foods to help increase your libido. Some foods said to help increase the female libido include red wine, dark chocolate, oysters, almonds and avocados. Try them one at a time to see if any single food helps increase your libido.
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Step 3
Spend more quality time with your partner. If your lives are both rushed, chances are you're not spending enough time together, or if you are spending time together, it might not be quality time. Strive to set aside time for the two of you to just be together and enjoy each other's company. Turn off the TV, send the kids to a sitter and have a nice, romantic meal.
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Step 4
Try an herbal remedy to help with your decreased libido. Ginko biloba is known to help balance estrogen and progesterone in the female body. Women who take the drug report an increase in sexual function and desire. Ginko biloba is available in pill form at many health food stores and supplement shops.
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Step 5
Visit a sex therapist. If you think there might be a deeper issue at hand that is decreasing your libido, you might need professional help. A sex therapist will be able to help you diagnose your problem and find a solution. You might require hormone therapy or simply talk therapy to help resolve your decrease in libido.








