How to Train in Grief Counseling
Everyone experiences loss in their life, whether it's the death of a friend, parent, family member, spouse or even pet. Training social service workers and grief counselors to relate to those who have experienced a sudden loss, trauma, or death of a loved one is important to griever's overall health and well-being in the weeks and months ahead so that they can get through the grieving process with help.
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Explain the role of the grief counselor as a companion. Companionship to a grieving person is like a friend who's there to actively listen, respond and support them. Emphasize the fact that grief counseling in a companion role means that the counselor needs to allow the griever to express his or her emotions in a healthy way without judgment or criticism.
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Show and teach the grief counseling trainees the art of eye contact and facial expressions. Maintaining eye contact with someone who's grieving is important; it shows that you care and you're actively listening to what they're saying. In addition, explain and show how to avoid facial microexpressions that may suggest disinterest or disapproval of the griever.
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Explain how to use positive body language and show examples. For example, train your grief counselors to orient their body positions toward the griever. It's also important for grief counselors to be relaxed while communicating with the other person, avoiding crossed arms or rigid postures.
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Teach vocal skills to the grief counselors. Explain the importance of using a natural voice in conversations and that your tone communicates emotions and feelings. Mention that speaking in a soft tone may be necessary to convey a sense of compassion and empathy.
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Explain the importance of active listening and responding. This involves being attentive to what the other person is saying and using open-ended questions to allow the griever to communicate feelings and emotions on a topic.
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Train grief counselors in first aid and intervention techniques. Individuals who are grieving may experience panic attacks, shock and anger as a result of their loss or trauma experience. Grief counselors should be trained in CPR, basic first aid, and intervention techniques such as relaxation exercises or guided imagery to help.
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