How to Communicate with a Person with Mild Dementia
Many senior citizens suffer from mild dementia or early stages of Alzheimer's. Through loving and careful communication, it is still possible to have meaningful conversations with those afflicted with the condition. You can also learn some strategies for more effective communication. Remember, individuals with mild dementia are like anyone else. They need compassion, understanding and support, just like you do.
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Instructions
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Speak clearly and directly to your loved one. Stand in front of her as you speak; perhaps touch her arm to indicate that you want to have a conversation. Maintain eye contact throughout.
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Use verbal and nonverbal cues. This will help trigger your loved one's memory. Instead of using pronouns, use proper names and provide further cues (for instance, "Roger, your son...") to make clear whom you're referring to. Point to relevant items to further reinforce the topic. For example, if you are talking about a television program you want to watch, point to the TV or TV guide.
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Make memory cards. Next to the phone, write your loved one's name, address and phone number. Also make sure he always carries that information with him. Even if the dementia is mild, he may forget these details if he gets confused, hurt or upset. If your loved one lives alone and takes medication, write out the directions and possibly set a timer next to the pill bottles. Mark important dates, such as doctor's appointments, on a calendar or tape reminders to a mirror.
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Tips & Warnings
Remember that your loved one is suffering and will get frustrated easily. Let her know that any miscommunication is not her fault. Instead of saying "You're not making any sense," say something like "I'm sorry, I'm having trouble understanding what you mean."
Denial and fear sometimes lead us to overlook subtle changes in a loved one's condition. Have an outside source, such as a good friend or nurse, come with you once a month to visit your loved one. He may see something that you have missed, like an inability to remember how to dial 911. Noticing such things could save your loved one's life.
